56. Adaptibility is not a bad quality to have

In life there is rarely anything that is one step besides the entrance to a one story home. You want to cook a special dinner first thing is deciding what you are cooking then you figure out the recipie which may come from memory or Pinterest. Really you are just getting started because you now need to hit the grocery store to collect all the ingredients which may or may not be available due to the many factors that naturally work against the plans we make for ourselves. Somehow you manage to leave the grocery with all your ingredients and without being attacked by a zombie. So you walk in your house and you start getting out of the things you think you will be needing to create this masterpiece of a meal only to realize after 10 minutes of frantic searching through your cabinents that you loaned your only baking dish to your friend two months ago. Now this is where things could change. What do you do next? You need the dish to cook the meal so going on without the dish would involve changing the entire meal. Which let us be honest your not Gordan Ramsay so you have no clue how to change an entire recipe around. Your finishline is dinner but in the middle of your race to eat there has been a gamechanging alteration. Borrow a dish from a neighbor? Drive back to the store to buy a dish? Call your friend who can never return anything they borrow in hopes she will rush it over to your house? What is your next move going to be.....

56. Adaptibility is not a bad quality to have
I can not tell you how many times my plans have turned into huge messes that led me nowhere near the place I planned on going. That is life. Odds are nothing will work out exactly the way we think it will. Rain happens even when the weather channel says it won't. People don't show up after they promised that they would. Jobs don't start even after the manager who interviewed you shakes your hand as if your the coolest person they have ever met. Sh*t happens. What we do when it happens is whats important. PLeaseee I am begging you do not be that person who refuses to veer from the plan A path because they have no idea how to adapt to the spur of the moment unknown. The person who would rather see something fail or not happen instead of maybe going with a plan B or C is a sucky person. Being adaptable is a good thing, being adaptable is really the only way to survive in the jungle aka life. So don't suck, adapt.


Soon I will no longer be driving the 2 hours to and from work everyday soon so that is a GREAT thing. The road is not exciting nor fun at 7 am. Sidenote anybody who wants to organize my life and maybe make some life decisions for me is more than welcome because I can not seem to have a complete thought. Besides me being the usual crazy person that I am I do hope there is some possibility that I can reach the point of routine. I don't need easy just routine would be more then welcomed by myself. Anywho that is where my head is at, but I can't complain because people have worse issues daily than I have had in a lifetime. Enjoy the last day of February everyone who knows what March will bring (:

55. Physical Beauty should not be the only goal you have in life

Pretty people, pretty pictures, pretty clothes, pretty shoes, pretty cars. What they all have in common is that they are easy on the eyes and we all love to look at them and sometimes stare embarrassingly long at them hoping they can't see us doing it. In case you didn't know you are not a secret service agent and yes the guy or girl your stalking out can feel your stares like a laser beam so you should just go say hi I like your shoes or something semi-normal. Being good looking or wanting to be is not a fault or negative goal entirely, feeling attractive in turns gives us the self-confidence to be comfortable in our skin. So go find the best version of yourself that you want to show off to the world then dance in the streets and when somebody stops you because you are so freaking good looking please be able to hold a converstion about things other than reality tv shows.

55. Physical Beauty should not be the only goal you have in life
You want to lose weight thats cool. You want to have some elective plastice surgery umm ok its your body. You can't leave you house without a full face of makeup I won't judge you. You only care about how hot you are and require that fact to be validated by the general public on a daily basis then we honestly would not be friends nor be able to have a conversation. Physical beauty is a good positive goal to have but please for the sake of humanity as a whole have some other goals too. The worst thing is seeing somebody attractive have the personality and intelligence of a rock. We live in a world where in a high percentage of situations the emphasis put on physical beauty far outweighs eveything else. But honestly have you noticed that most of those people who became famous because of their looks can not hold a simple conversation. Lose the weight and get hot but also learn a language and volunteer somewhere. Also for the love of jeezus please have some sort of idea about the current events going on in the world around you. Don't be that sucky person who obsesses about their looks and what everyone around them looks like. If the sentance "I only like being around good looking people" or "Ugly people should not be allowed in here" or "I just naturally find the best looking people whenever I go because thats who I can relate too" comes out of your mouth you SUCK! Also beauty fades and pretty things get boring to look at.

Rainy days and Sundays always get me down? I have a feeling I really butchered those songs lyrics but you get the idea. My day off ended up being a rainy one that makes it hard for me to get motivated to do anything but eat in front of the television. I did accomplish some semi-productive things but I feel as if I did easy things so that I can say I didn't waste my day. After this libray trip I will do some more shopping then head to my spot on the couch. Summer 2013 please be exciting and full of bad decisions along with laughing until I pass out surrounded by the loves of my life. Is that asking too much? Nahhh didn't think so (: